My boston terrier hates my husband
Ever since we got my boston, he developed this fear/hatred for my husband. The only incident that we can relate it to where Norman (dog) might have thought my husband was being mean was within the 1st 2 days of having him and wouldn't come out of his kennel. Adam tried to reach in and grab him (non-aggressively) and when he picked Norman up, Norman started peeing and pooing all over him and the floor-- it was literally flying everywhere. This is the common reaction (sometimes) when my husband picks him up.
Norman will come if my husband is stern and calls him, but he's hesitant. If my husband picks him up and tried to hug him, Norman will comply for a few seconds then jump at the first chance he gets.
He is protective over me. I know because he will sit by me and if my husband comes in the door, Norman will bark like crazy at him and growl. He does this with no one else though. He's more than happy around other men.
What can we do to change this? we have tried everything!