Heartbroken

by Sewall Hodges
(New York City)

Lily: born 5/11/07 - died 11/3/08; we are heartbroken

Lily: born 5/11/07 - died 11/3/08; we are heartbroken

Our beloved Lily passed away yesterday morning at the age of 1.5 years. She weighed 10 lbs and was the most beautiful boston terrier I have ever seen. We attended an number of Boston Terrier "get togethers" in New York City and BT owners were all amazed at Lily's unsurpassed physique, stature and personality.

Weighing in at only 10 pounds, she was clearly small, but was not bred to be such. She came from normal parents, bred in Massachusetts by reputable breeders. For some reason she remained small. Her proportions were truly remarkable, surpassing even the most handsome of Boston Terriers. As with many of her breed, her personality was in true Boston tradition: loving, playful, and radiant.

Unfortunately she passed suddenly after a very short (only hours in duration) illness that did not seem at all serious. We are devastated by her passing and can not fathom what illness took her from us. We are wracked by our decision to wait those precious hours to take her to a veterinary doctor, as her illness did not seem something that would at all be fatal. In death she was as beautiful in life. I held her for over an hour after she had departed and her expression and repose was as beautiful as ever.

Everyday I walked Lily and each day I would be stopped by one, two, three or more strangers that wanted to admire her and inquire about her. People would see us from afar and cross busy streets to come look at her. Her admirers would also always want to pick her up to cuddle, given her size. Other dog breeds simply could not stand up to her poise, posture, energy and presence. When she was playful with other dogs during our walks, onlookers would burst out with laughter and glee at her antics and playful poses. No pictures really do her justice. We buried her today in Dorset, Vermont, where she spent her early months. Her grave is marked by a lovely Vermont white marble slab which will be engraved with her name and a few words in her honor. Words can not express our grief and loss.

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Jun 25, 2009
My Buster
by: Anonymous

Sounds like the same story about my Buster. He was almost 9 yrs old and wait till I got home to die. Within 30 mins he was gone. He didnt suffer. But I sure am. This has to be the hardest thing I have ever had to face. Buster was my first pet ever and like a son to me. As the days come and go I miss him more and cry for him at the drop of a hat. Buster Boy, momma luvs you big as the world...........

Jan 28, 2009
I FEEL YOUR PAIN
by: Chuck's sad mom

Your story is so similar to mine - I was wondering if you ever found out what happened. My beloved Boston, Chuck died yesterday morning very quickly - less than an hour. We rushed him to the vet, but they couldn't save him. We thought it was a stroke, but we didn't do any testing. He was fine before it happened, running and playing as usual. It just doesn't make sense!!! So sorry for your loss - It hurts so bad!!

Dec 31, 2008
So sorry
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry about your lovely Lily. It brought tears to my eyes as I lost my Buster almost three years ago. Obviously, I haven't gotten over it yet. Buster was my second Boston and so very special. He was so good, smart and so intuitive. He was almost twelve when he died. I wouldn't get any other breed but a Boston.

Dec 30, 2008
SO SORRY
by: Angie

I'm so sorry for your loss. She is beautiful.

Dec 25, 2008
So painful
by: Kathy

I am so sorry for the loss of your Lilly. I know your pain so well. I had a beautiful girl bt named lucy. She was my first bt that I got from a friend of mine who breeds bostons. Lucy was the joy of my life-I never thought a dog could bring so much fun, joy and happiness to my life. A few weeks before Christmas last year and about two months after having 7 little bostons lucy had a seizure.

My son and I thought she was choking on a rawhide bone that I gave her hours before. I never dreamed she would have 12 more seizures that night and next morning. I took her to the vet and he couldn't tell me why she had so many in a short amount of time. He put her on medication that would hopefully slow or stop the seizures. In time she did get better until I decided to have her spayed.

Lucy ended up having more seizures after the surgery and her little heart could not take it anymore. I never got to say goodbye to her--she was all alone when she died. The vet's office left her there all by herself that night knowing what her condition was. I miss her dearly. I took lucy home the next afternoon and buried her in the trees where she loved to play.

I have a new boston now named Sassie and she can never take lucy's place but she does have a forever home with me.

Dec 19, 2008
I am deeply sorry
by: Missy

I just wanted to let you know I will keep you in my prayers. I have a 5 1/2 month old boston, and had an awful night with her last night. She has always been healthy, but had 5 seizures back to back last night. Our vet isn't sure why, but we are hoping it was only a drop in blood sugar, rather than anything any more serious than that. I couldnt imagine my life without her and for a while this morning, I really thought I was losing her.

Again, I apologize for your loss and will be praying for you and your family.

Blessings,
Missy

Dec 05, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss
by: Katy

I cannot imagine how devastating the loss of your beloved Boston terrier must be...I have had my Boston for a little less than 2 years and I have grown so attached to him that I am not sure what I would do without him in my life. Have you made a remembrance page at all? I would love to see other pictures, she sounds like she was so beautiful and delicate. Again I am so sorry for your loss.

Nov 20, 2008
I know your pain
by: Anonymous

I know the pain you are feeling. I just lost my BT, Madeline on Tues. I still feel as if I cannot get trough each day. I can't believe how much the breed grabs your heart. These little fur babies are like actual children to us. I only wish you had more time with her. I'm sorry.

Nov 17, 2008
SO SADD ={
by: Anonymous

AWWW THAT IS SO SAD SHE LOOK HAPPY ITS SO SAD TO SEE HER GONE

Nov 10, 2008
lily
by: barbara

Aww i am so terribly sorry to hear about lily,she was so beautiful girl. you can see the love she had for you, and you for her in her pic.
I have been raised with bostons. my mother owned ruby kennels in nv. This breed is quite the little darlins. I also have one sire the great bulldozer.
we will keep you in our prayers..
lily will be missed deeply ..........

Nov 07, 2008
awww...i am so sorry
by: Anonymous

very sad story. as dog lovers on this site i am sure it has touched us all. thank you for sharing. i hope it has been beneficial to get your story out. she was a beautiful little girl.
tracy

Nov 07, 2008
so sorry
by: Fiona

so sorry to read about your lovely Lily. she was beautiful. you cant reproach yourself for not going to the vet sooner Sadly these awful things do happen and there is no reason for it.
We have two lovely bostons Millie and Buddy - both just two years of age now. I read you buried her in Dorset, we live in Dorset UK so just to let you know that we are thinking of you across the water and hope your grief will ease
with love
Fiona, Buddy and Millie

Nov 06, 2008
Sympathy
by: Mary

Lily was a very beautiful girl and the picture does show some of that personality, I hope you do realize that there was no way you could have known that the illness was going to take her and always know she loves you. Most people don't understand that these our more than pets to us they are our children and that this loss is heavy. I pray you find peace and forgive yourself, because she knows you loved her.

Nov 06, 2008
So sorry
by: Heidi

I am so sorry of your loss of Lily. She is adorable. Just know that in her short life she KNEW you guys loved her so much. Keep your heads up and keep good thoughts. Prayers for you....

Heidi

Nov 06, 2008
BEAUTIFUL LILY REST IN PACE SWEETHEART
by: JACLYN

I AM SO SORRY THAT LILY PASSED AWAY, YOUR STORY HAS ME IN TEARS, SHE IS SO SWEET AND BEAUTIFUL. I HAVE AN 11 YEAR OLD BOSTON NAMED EMILY AND IF ANYTHING EVER HAPPENED TO HER, I THINK I WOULD DIE.

HER BEAUTIFUL SISTER SHANA PASSED AWAY 3 AND A HALF YEARS AGO FROM CUSHINGS DISEASE, THE WORST DAY OF MY LIFE. THIS WAS THE FIRST TIME I HAD SEEN MY HUSBAND CRY. WE LIVE IN FLORIDA AND HAVE HER IN A BEAUTIFUL PET CEMENTARY IN PLANTATION. MY MOTHER AND FATHER HAD TWO BOSTONS THAT PASSED AWAY ONE ABOUT 14 AND ONE ALMOST 16. IT IS VERY HARD, WE LOVE THESE ANIMALS SO MUCH!!!! I DO NOT KNOW HOW WE GO ON. I JUST SAY THEY ARE ALL PLAYING TOGETHER IN THE RAINBOW BRIDGE. BOSTON TERRIERS ARE GIFTS FROM GOD, LIKE NO OTHER BEING. MY EMILY IS THE BEST AND BETTER LIVE FOREVER!!

AGAIN I AM SO SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED TO LILY, SHE IS IN PEACE NOW, MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AT THIS HORRIBLE TIME. LET ME KNOW IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND. TAKE GOOD CARE AND WRITE BACK IF YOU FEEL UP TO IT. REST IN PEACE BEAUTIFUL LILY, PLAY IN THE RAINBOW BRIDGE WITH SHANA, SUSIE,AND WINSTON. RUN TOGETHER, PLAY WITH THE TENNIS BALLS AND HAVE FUN. WE LOVE YOU FOREVER LILY. JACLYN AND EMILY FROM FLORIDA

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